Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Seeking our own help


            We all have good and bad times. Is n’t it? Most of the people think that, they can lean on someone [may be it is family, friends or any one close] to get over their bad times. And are they satisfied? Do they always get the relief they needed? I think NO. If anyone thinks that, they can depend on some other person for their problems, and got it solved completely, and then I should say ‘there is a terrible mistake my dear friends’. It’s true that, somebody can give advice or suggest any solution. But, that alone cannot solve any issue most of the time.. The person who can help us ultimately is our own self. Nobody else better know us. Nobody else know what we need really. To know what we really need, we should listen to our heart. And if we depend on others for every solutions, we are not completely hearing what our heart says, Instead we are allowing others to decide what we need. Obviously, that cannot make our cup full. Sometimes, the person we are expecting to help us may not be ready at the time needed. Then things may look like more complicated, and we may get more and more depressed. So, we can depend on our all-time friend. None other than our own self.
            Listen to our heart, believe in ourselves, then nothing will be left without a solution...

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Monday images #2





Here is some snapshots by me. Just outside my house. Hope you like it..

  Todays theme- Blossom


pleasant welcome


In love
 lovely couple
single but strong
Happily together

Smiling beauties..
A big family




Sikha





Sunday, September 30, 2012

Finishing point

Blogathon- Count down # 1

   September has come to its end, and my 'Blogathon'. so, this is the last post in the Blog- marathon..

It was not an easy task for me to be up-to-date with my mission. I missed the flow, near the finishing end. It was really a very 'busy september'..

  Thank you all my friends, for all your love and support, during the Blogathon  Those who found time for reading my post and make some comments are really honoured.  Thanks a Ton!!. Privy, who wrote a guest post[ calculating life] for me can never be forgotten.

  So, I hope, I can do better next time..

Cheers!!!!



Sikha



   

Saturday, September 29, 2012

'Abnormal' or 'Ab - normal'..?

Blogathon- Count down # 2



            Me go to college by our college bus. It is just  30 minutes travel  from my home. When I get in the bus, and settled near a window, I will be having the outside view, if nobody is near me to start any talk. Sometimes, I will lose myself in some thoughts. Yeah, I am such a crazy thinker..
            Some weeks ago, I came to see something different during my travel. I have seen a big house, named ‘ Ramanattumalika” on the road side itself. The thing, that caught my eye was the board which was kept near the gate. Something was written on that. But, I was not able to read it from a running bus. But, one day I really made it!! And you know, what was written on that?
            That read like this- “ Anybody who enter this house should switch off your body parts above  your neck by themselves”..I was just surprised. My mouth wide open.. and so as my colleague’s. What the..?[ imitating ASR in IPPKND in starplus].
            I am sure, you all may are wondering reading this. Me then enquired my bus mates about this. Most of them were already aware of that. And  here is the summary of what they told me- There lives a man alone by himself. He is not mentally normal. Sometimes he appears in-front of the house in a long kurta- pyjama and wearing big sunglasses. He is very tall,..abnormally tall. Sometimes he is found sitting near the gate. His wife is a doctor, and his children are also in good positions. But, they are not with him. He is alone in that big house. Everybody were saying about him just like a joke. But, I felt so.. bad. I have told them, ‘Oh, what a poor condition. We never have to laugh at such an unlucky person”. But, my own mind got changed when I heard about his flashback.
            That goes like this- He is a criminal, who just got out from the jail less than one year ago. He was accused and  punished on the murder of his own brother, for the huge money and property to which they were the share holders. And his brother who got murdered was a murderer by himself!! He killed his own father. That too for money. Oh! What a family!! May due to his abnormality in mental condition, he have got the concession on humanitarian ground and that may have helped him to get released from the jail.
            I got really shocked. I never thought such kind of people are there near my place. All the pity I had just before hearing his past, had gone by then. I don’t know, whether he deserves it.
            On another day, we have seen him infront of his house, with pure white kurta-pyjama and black colored glasses. But, there was something else that made every one laugh. In the court yard there were a large number of long pyjamas hanging!!! Surrounding his house, there were a lot of pyjamas in different colours. Most of them were in white. One of my colleague exclaimed “ Oh, this guy has got this much clothes?!!!!. Everybody laughed at this, and within no time, we all reached college. Everybody started their works. Me was thinking..”I he really mad? I mean, is hi abnormality is real? Does he deserve pity?”. I don’ know.. better, I leave that topic, and stop thinking about that...

      Is he 'abnormal' or 'Ab-normal'. [ In Hindi, 'ab' means 'now']


            Sikha

Friday, September 28, 2012

Today's thought # 2

Blogathon- Count down # 3



" A person who irritates you always is , the one who loves you very much but fails to express it...."



  What do you think my friends...?


Sikha

Thursday, September 27, 2012

Feeling satisfied..

Blogathon- Count down # 4




            The symposium at college has come to an end today. Everything was fine, and well organized. The college authorities congratulated all the co-ordinators in making this a grant success. Ours is a new budding college, and this was our first symposium. Even, this was our first attempt, we could make it work!! And that too , within a limited time of 10 days. Cheers to all!!!
           
            
  Sikha