TEA, CAKE and Me..

Preeti Shenoy's new prompt:-

 Write three sentences about yourself,  first sentence starting with T., second with  E and third with A
(as it spells TEA). If you want to write more, write four more sentences but they have to start with C, A, K and E respectively. (CAKE)

  So, here is my try.. i think I am some one ,

Thinking too much( necessary and unnecessary) and Talkative..

Eating very little (motto- eating for living ,and not living for eating)

Adaptive and adjustable to situations and people

Caring for my loved ones 

Apologize my mistakes as soon as I realize  my fault

Kiddish sometimes( or most of the time) before my close ones

Encouraging others, if I feel they are a bit down,and need a candle of hope

Hope, I have done it easily..

Sikha

Brida

     I am a Fan of Paulo Coehlo . I just love the way he writes..Most of them are having a spiritual( not religious) side, and in most of them we can find Love too..Alchemist was the one I have read first, and It has become my most Favorite book..Then, I collected some more works done by him, and I can say, none of them made me regret. They all are good..very very good..


        The last one I came to read was "Brida". Its a story about Magic, finding your soulmate, and the different birth's we take..It was really interesting..a wonderful experience. After finished reading it, I was a bit excited, and I want to do something. My mind is giving some instructions to my hand, and finally the thing I got was........

             
Is it nice..? Let me know....

You can find his blog  here

Choosing the right path..

“Two roads diverged in a wood,
And I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference”
(I dont own these lines above)


So, what I want to tell is that ,


If we want to achieve something special, want to be different from others, want to make your own signature in your field, then try to choose the less traveled path. We may face new things, new challenges, but at the end, there will be our destiny. ..the thing we always wished for.. So, never be afraid of choosing a path that is different from others…That may make a difference.. a better one..

“BAVRANS”

  The word meaning of BAVRANS is ‘butterflies’…and I am going to talk about some butterflies, who were brought together at the same place by destiny. I am happy to say that me also belongs to this ‘family’.

   When I got admission in a college far from my home, the only thing that I felt as a problem was.. i have to stay in a hostel. Until  then, I never had a chance to stay away from my family. So it was a new experience for me to be in a hostel…and it was thrilling too, to meet new faces, to have new friends, and to be in a new atmosphere..

  

  Then I got admission in a hostel very near to my college… our college. There was 9 friends waiting for me in the room which was  numbered as 408. Some of us were very much home sick, but just after a few days, everyone got adapted to our new world, and started living as a single family under the same roof..

  

    One day one of us came with an idea of giving a name to our room (may be we are not satisfied with just a number), and every one agreed to that. We got a nice name also.. ”DOVECOT”- which means dove’s nest..

  

  It was  a  holiday-  we have nothing to do and we were just talking and discussing on a lot of topics ,then came the idea of making a new word joining the first alphabets of our names. We are in search of not just a word ,but a meaningful word.. Then by avoiding the repetitions of some letters finally we got the name “BAVRANS”, which means ‘butterflies’…

   A day for love... this is the meaning for the "Valentine's Day", that everybody know about.   The name was got from the name of Saint Valentine... There are  people, who supports celebrating February 14th as 'Lover's day'  and there is also the opposition parties, who don't believe in such a celebration. They say that, why giving so importance for this day more or than that we give to mother's day or father's day or even Teacher's day..? A third party will ask, "Is there any need for special day for love? means Love is not for a single day, it is for a life time..and it should be a lifetime celebration"..(Me belong to this category..)

         Whatever the reason behind celebrating this day, whatever the different opinions, I want to make you notice one thing.. Now, it is a big Business now. Can we call it the 'commercialization of Love' ? Hey, i am not going to say more about this. Just reminded you, how much money is spending for such a celebration. That too, in our Country.. where there are a lot of people who are not getting enough food, dress, and don't have a roof above them..Really wondering about the glittering side and the darkened side of life...May be we are not seeing the two sides at the same time, as they are like the two sides of a coin..But, we know, both exists..Then why do we avoid the dark side? Is it because, it is not worthy to look at?or because we don't have to notice ,as we are out of that circle?

 I am not against Love,or celebrating Love ..I was just thinking about the Business side.And about the money we spent on the glittering things..Love is a pure thing, and it need to be retain its purity always..Love is a celebration too..But, not for a single day..Its a celebration between hearts, I believe.. 

         

         Regards,

Sikha

    

What is your blogging personality...?

 I just have  found a link regarding , the ' blogging personality' in Reflections ..I just checked it out .There I had to choose  answers for some questions(Hey, the test was objective), and the result is....

Your blogging style is thoughtful and considerate

        You're a well liked, though underrated, blogger.You have a heart of gold and are likely to blog for a cause.You're a peaceful blogger - no drama for you!A good listener and friend, you tend to leave thoughtful comments for others. 

  I know, it is just for Fun!! But, "everyone likes appreciation " right naa?

If you also want to check your "Blogging personality", You can do it here

Regards

Sikha

A wound that not healed yet....

        

Some people come to our lives without any intimation,and dominate our life within a short period. I had (yes it is past now) a friendship just like this. She came to my life when I joined my higher secondary school. From the first day,within 5 minutes we became friends..Every other students in our class thought we were already friends from childhood. It was a relation that most of them envy about...

          We were together for everything. Walked with holding hands always. It was she who was more dominant. Me always said to be adjustable(others says) and never said “No” to her  for anything. Whatever  it might be, I was always with her.

          It was very late, that I came to know her reality. How she fooled me, by doing things against me when I blindly trust her..and.....the bond had broken when I knew the truth. It was a real shock for me, and I could’t get over it till now. What was wrong with her..?Why did she did this to me...?

          After that also, I got several good friends..but this bad experience changed me so that, even being friendly to everyone, I can’t trust them blindly. Now I can’t open up fully to anybody...

          We never have to hurt the people who love you..never have to break their trust, at any cost...The wound made in their heart can never be healed... 

Preeti  Deedi…..(meet her here)

   Deedi, first of all I want to tell you, “You are really a wonderful person….”

 Its only a few weeks, I came to know about you. One day, I was browsing through flipkart, and just caught by the front cover of your book, “ life is what you make it”. The title itself was so interesting, that I read the excerpts , and tried to know more about you,and found out your website and blog,..all these just forgetting about for what I have been searching there up to then. From that moment I started reading your blog regularly. I am trying to finish reading your older posts, staying up late at night.

   The flipkart has no shipping (cash on delivery,) in my home  town . So, I have to go to a bookstall and ordered your book, “Life is what you make it”…It took one week to get your book…the waiting was really not easy for me. And you know what?..i was so thrilled  when I got it in my hand, and started reading it with out any delay…And, I need to tell you, I just finished it in one sitting…Yes, it is so..so..good Deedi, and thank you so much for giving such a nice treat to readers like me.

  I have also ordered “ 34 bubblegums and Candies “…and told my sister to bring it for me, as the bookstall is near her college. I am reaching home a little late that (7.00 pm), I cant drop myself there and get it by myself. Today, I was expecting to get that, and I was thinking about you and your book the whole day during my work, and during my long travel…( I am a day scholar , I have to travel 2 hrs for every morning and evening. Now I am doing my academic project, which is for a duration of 1 yr, in a Research and Development cetntre)…..But, unfortunately, my sister forgot to buy that, and I felt bad..i have even scolded her for being so irresponsible , for forgetting to bring that…. How can she know that getting this book is so important for me…and how much eagerly, I was waiting for it to come… So, I made her promise me that, she will surely get it tomorrow..

    And I am waiting…..

  Deedi, you are so energetic, charming, inspiring…what more I can say…? You are just the best in everything you do….Congrats deedi, and May God bless you to be more and more great…..

    Now, I am not telling about my family, and the the other things I want to share with you…This is my first mail to you, that’s why… I am not that much familiar to you, though  I feel You are someone very dearest to me..Deedi, you , Shenoy Bhayya, Atul and purvi…all are just like my own family…love you deedi..

And so, I will surely write you about so many things…I know, you are so busy, but my heart wants to get you write back…It will be great pleasure for me if you reply me..

…

     All these for now deedi…Let me say good bye for now…

With love and warm regards…

 Sikha

   

 16-11-2011

Waiting for someone, who means a lot

Waiting for someone, who means a lot

            Too late it was, but trusting his word

Couldn’t stop tears falling down

            And couldn’t console aching heart

Couldn’t help the pillow wetting…

            But still remember the promise

And……….

    

The Bell got rang……

            Sobbing continued resting on his chest

Beating, without harming

Dear, you kept promise, but Ready to b punished

            And hug me tight..

           

Its a beginning...

    Wondering what to write in my first post...
          It was  at a moment ,I felt so lonely..and want to share my words to somebody very close to my heart. Unfortunately (or not) I could not find anybody suitable. Even, couldn't pour out it to my Diary...it was just because I was feeling a little bit low.
        But, finally I decided to write here whatever I want to tell..The things that I feel strongly about..about my love, life and career..